Warning Signs: Telling the Little Birdies
There once was a group and then the new guy took over, and then it got weird. And is getting weirder. So, just a word to the wise from this site: http://www.rickross.com/warningsigns.html (More information IS there, too, including a list of qualities of a properly run group that is not going the cult route.)
Ten warning signs of a potentially unsafe group/leader.
- Absolute authoritarianism without meaningful accountability.(like blowing off the next level of organization AND tradition? Like that?)
- No tolerance for questions or critical inquiry.(Verbally sandblasts questioners or criticism)
- No meaningful financial disclosure regarding budget, expenses such as an independently audited financial statement.
- Unreasonable fear about the outside world, such as impending catastrophe, evil conspiracies and persecutions.(Paranoid about who knows what and who is where, and when—always texting or calling members)
- There is no legitimate reason to leave, former followers are always wrong in leaving, negative or even evil.(If you aren’t with them, you are against HIM?? Sound familiar?)
- Former members often relate the same stories of abuse and reflect a similar pattern of grievances.
- There are records, books, news articles, or television programs that document the abuses of the group/leader.(Deleted blogs or message forum data?)
- Followers feel they can never be “good enough”.
- The group/leader is always right.
- The group/leader is the exclusive means of knowing “truth” or receiving validation, no other process of discovery is really acceptable or credible.
And from another site:(Please go to link to read the full descriptions – http://www.factnet.org/headlines/destructive_cult_warning_signs.html)
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A destructive cult tends to be totalitarian in its control of its members’ behavior.
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A destructive cult tends to have an ethical double standard.
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A destructive cult has only two basic purposes: recruiting new members and fund-raising.
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A destructive cult appears to be innovative and exclusive.(Like calling traditional things “old fashioned” or medieval and ignoring them?)
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A destructive cult is authoritarian in its power structure. (Like secret meetings held by the favored few.)
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A destructive cult’s leader is a self-appointed messianic person claiming to have a special mission in life.
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A destructive cult’s leader centers the veneration of members upon himself or herself.(Lots of pictures of the Fearless Leader, and few of other members?)
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A destructive cult’s leader tends to be determined, domineering, and charismatic.
